Elfelfn

I'm a 30-year-old female, and I live in Lucerne, Switzerland .

I speak English, Turkish and a tiny bit of French, German.

Current level: Casual

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• Something to tell the world!

  Hey world!

  I am a nice person as far as I know, please be nice to me too. Here, I am looking for a penpal friend - yea oldschool, but I like it- Btw, preferably woman penpal friends. Why? Even tho I hate generalization, I need to say this; based on my experience 99% of the guys writing me expect sth different than I do.

  I am MARRIED! which means I definetely don't need any romantic involvement with someone 49218469 km away.

  Thanks!

• Cities and countries I have visited

  I love travelling, but I am not a traveller. Here are the countries I've visited:
  *Bosnia
  *US (Connecticut, NY, Boston, Orlando)
  *The Netherlands
  *Belgium
  *Germany
  *Czech Republic
  *Slovakia
  *Austria
  *Hungary
  *Norway
  *Finland
  *Estonia
  *Denmark
  *North Ireland
  *Malta
  *South Korea
  *Russia
  *Indonesia
  *Saudi Arabia
  *France
  *Poland
  *Bulgaria
  *UK

  Also I've lived in below countries at some point in my life:
  *Turkey (mostly here, this is where I am from tho 🙂 )
  *Italy
  *Scotland
  *Sweden
  *Switzerland (this is where I live now)

  I enjoyed all the places I've been so far. But, if I need to pick a favorite city I would go with Edinburgh <3 Except the weather it is just a perfect city to live. So beautiful.

  And in terms of experience I had, I can say Indonesia is unforgettable for me. Every tiny moment I had there is very precious for me. Geez it has been almost 7 years, I still remember like it was yesterday.

  
  

• My proudest accomplishments

  Need to think about this one heh 😃 as a perfectionist person it is a difficult question for me (seriously, I used to have psychological support for this issue since it was making me despressed - but don't let it scare you, I am harmless)

• My interests in other cultures

  A lot!

  There is always something to be suprised in every culture even the ones you think you are familiar haha.

• I'm an expert at...

  I am expert listener 😃 if we are not arguing -turths- 😃

  uhh calling myself expert in anyth makes me unconfortable. I'll skip this one.

• A personal challenge

  My biggest challenge now is finding a job in Switzerland. Geez it is difficult here, huh.
  Once I accomplish this I guess it will be the hardest thing I've ever done.

• Favourite books/authors/films

  I know I know, it is super cliche but my fav. book is Harry Potter!
  I mean tell me in what other book you have the best friendship, advantures, creativeness, love, happiness, sadness, magic, fiction all together...

  Besides that, I really like Paulo Coelho's style. He never bores you, and after each book I feel like I learned sth. I also like Haruki Murakami, my brain suffers-in a good way- when I read his stories haha. He literally forces us to wake our brains' dusty parts 😃

  For movies, I like Wes Anderson's movies, scenes are always very satisfying and stories are like candies 🙂
  I like Tarantino too, but I prefer watching his movies twice. Because, after watching 1st time I need to do a little research to understand some cross-references. Then I watch again.

  My fav. movie is "La vita e bella". Even thinking about it makes me teary :'D

• Living abroad for one year

  I would either go back Edinburgh or Bali, or somewhere in US (yea I find the life in US very different than the rest of the world, so I would like to try)

• I always enjoy talking about...

  I like to talk about cats : D I can talk about them forever and ever.

• Making the world a better place

  Educating people would change many things. I am not talking about theocratical education, I am talking about teaching basic things beginning with RESPECT 101.

• Personal skills

  Uhh I wish I had a unique skill, would be cool 🙂

• Childhood pleasures

  Being careless 🙂 Not much responsibility you know.
  Also, I love my family, they made my childhood great.

• I recently learnt...

  I recently learnt that rock/sea and all the other fancy salts that we think better and healthier than the table salt are actually worse.

• 10 years from now

  I hope I will be working somewhere 🙂 and speaking German like I was born with it haha.

• I'm excited about...

  I am exciting about my new life with my partner! We just started this crazy path called marriage. Let's see.

• Something uncommon about me

  Well the combination of my cells makes me unique, No?

• It was better before

  Human relationships were better back then. Things were more exciting.

• It is better now

  It is easier to travel now 😛

• As a child, I wish...

  I would have more self-confidence and care the things less.

• I wish people knew more about...

  I wish people know more about the consequences of their actions.

• A career without obstacles

  I am happy with my career decisions, just I wish it was easier to find a job here 🙂

• My parents and me

  The biggest difference is the tolerance level I guess. But they are not that bad too, better than many ppl in their generation.

• My feeling about the future

  I dont know 😃 Who knows it anyway?

• My opinion on human nature

  Hmmmm

• I feel concerned about...

  I feel concerned about my career 🙂

• A trick or piece of advice

  Don't spend lots of time on social media.

• Life regrets

  I am sure I have some, but I can't remember now.

• Improving the school system

  Sex education - there is no such thing in Turkey-

• Over or underrated

  I find Pizza and Oreo overrated. On social media people are acting like they can't live without them as if these are the best things they ever had.
  Migrants are underrated, I mean they can achieve a lot and do many things if they just have a chance.